Friday, January 31, 2020

HorsePersonShip



I asked social media peoples a couple of questions this week.

How do you define good horsemanship?
What makes a good horseperson?
What makes a good rider?

Here are the responses:

"Patience and perseverance; educating oneself in the classical foundations of riding and applying that every time one is in the saddle."

"Empathy and kindness. Being under thousands of them day in and day out has taught me that horses are almost never actually malicious in their intent. They just are trying to explain what is going on in the only ways they are capable of. Trying to be empathetic - to understand what they are trying to say, and to try and relate and care for them in a species appropriate setting - that's all that really matters."

"Someone that can respond to the what they are given on and off the horse with compassion and knowledge"

"compassion, dedication, teachability"

"Conscientious. Puts the animal first, always. Can anticipate what will happen before it does, and therefore choose things that will have positive outcomes to build upon"

"I'll do a word association when I think of good horsemanship these words come to mind:
Care, knowledge, willingness to learn, work ethic, positive attitude, safe are just a few"

"Putting the needs of the horse first, always."



"The horse is first, always. If that's the star that guides you, you can't go wrong. Sometimes it sucks though, because horses can be heartbreakers."

"Passion"

"Good horsemanship is taking care of the horse when you’d rather not. Good horsemanship is paying attention to the animals needs before it really needs it. It’s putting your ego aside and doing what is best for your equine partner. It’s paying attention to herd dynamics, to being aware something is not quite right, to reading expression."

"Puts the physical, emotional, mental well being of the horse first. Makes the effort to acquire and use science based information regarding the above. Knows a well trained and mannered horse has the best chance of a decent life."

"Being an advocate for your horse, being able to help someone less knowledgeable without ridiculing them, and always ready to learn and listen. There is so much to learn, even if you disagree with someone."

"Listening to your horse."

"Achieving mutual respect"

"Listening to the horse above all else. A good rider needs to put hours and hours in the saddle with a solid trainer but cannot ever forget to be a horseman first and foremost."




I agree with all of these as I think most of us will.

but you know what I found interesting?

It was what was NOT said.

No one mentioned "wins all the blue ribbons' or "Only scores above 65%" or "never takes a rail" or "never has refusal' or "never falls off." Nothing about "has multiple national titles' or "competes at the Olympics" or "has the best tack."

And nothing about "rides only in accordance to such and such theory" or "shows FEI" or "has a bunch of clients."

Who takes better care of their horse? The competitive rider in Wellington who stables her horse only at the best barn with the best footing, and supervised turnout with boots and the most expensive tack OR the cowboy who has ranch horses who live out in the field, never wear blankets, work half the day sorting cattle but are in good condition and up to date on vet and farrier work.

My opinion? Both. 



My point? Quit your judging on how people ride and care for their horses. And I'm not innocent either. Honestly as long as it's not abusive, I could not care less how others choose to keep and ride their horses. It should be the horsemanship that matters. Not your discipline. Not what training system you choose to follow. (There many, even just within the dressage world.). Not if your horse lives in a stall, or outside, or a combination. 

If your horse is fed, has water, and up to date on vet/farrier checks they are more than likely doing just fine and there are PLENTY of horses that don't even get that much. Scores don't matter  - they do not reflect much except a 5 min test you rode - blue ribbons don't matter (I have seen plenty of abuse win blue ribbons). How many rails you pulled doesn't matter. The "level" you ride doesn't matter. Honestly step off your high horse. (ha). (That's another can of worms I might open)

What matters is a happy, healthy horse. Do you watch your horse's expression? 




Do you listen when they are sore or hurting? do you pain attention to their emotional state as well? How do they interact with their herd? How does change affect them? How do you handle it? 

As a rider, are you fair to your horse? I almost wrote "Are you making an attempt to improve?" but then thought, gosh, there it is again. JUDGEMENT. There are plenty of riders who feel no need to improve because their chosen discipline doesn't really require it. For example, weekend trail/pleasure riders. If your only goal is a fun relaxing few hours on the trail, fine! Like I said, just be fair and not abusive and it's all good. I don't care if your spine is properly aligned and the E+MC2 pounds of pressure in your right seatbone aligns with Jupiter. It doesn't matter.

(although I've seen a handful of hilljack trail riders making REAL DUMB decisions and those people I will still judge.)

And here's the other thing, don't judge yourself, either,  so harshly. I know it's hard not to. I need to do a post in more detail. 
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Are you a partner and protector for your horse? 

That would be how I define horsemanship. A protector. An advocate. A partner (if you ride, drive, or otherwise interact with your horse regularly.

how do you define horsemanship?

Is there a distinction between a horseperson and a "good rider.?"




Thursday, January 16, 2020

Wordless week: Around the farm


I got nuthin' as far as riveting blog content at the moment. So here are some recent photos from around the farm and daily life with Hampton. :)







Piaffing it

does this bridle make my jowls look big? 

Barn cat Pippin follows me around all morning when I do chores



Why is their gravel on your nose.
(I promise he hasn't been doing rails of coke)


Nope it's not the bridle. Just massive hamster cheeks.



Buckley very busy

Hunter. A classic Stage 5 clinger.





Thursday, January 2, 2020

I'm not Barbara Walters, and this is 2020


Our traditional New Year's Day ride was a nice one this year. It was close to 50 degrees and sunny. We did a little schooling and then went on a hack around the farm. I can remember some previous New Years rides where it has been frozen tundra cold so I will take this!

And we are now less than 2 months away from our trip to Aiken. I'm not sure when the appropriate time is to freak out and develop anxiety over this/ Feb. 1 maybe?

I body clipped the porkchop as well. We both lived through that process. The motor on my clippers starting going in and out so it wasn't the best clip job but oh well.

nekked
We are just plugging away here! I sincerely enjoy the day to day training and time I spend with Hampton. He needs his hocks done soon, but has otherwise been feeling great.

I'm not sure on 2020 goals yet. Or if I want to set any in stone. Regionals are on my radar at I-1 and I-1 freestyle, but with horses you always write things in pencil right? .

I DO know that I want to take more photos! I got a new lens for my good camera so I am going to put it to use. I'm also focusing more on my own strength and fitness.

But really if you have your health (and your horse's health), you have everything.



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Tuesday, December 31, 2019

Smell you later 2019!



Wishing all my bombdiggity friends and fellow bloggers a Happy New Year!

In the words of Phish,
"You got your nice shades on, and the worst days are gone
So now the band plays on, you got one life, blaze on"

Love,

Karen

Hampton

Buckley

and Hunter



Monday, December 30, 2019

A decade seems to have passed

Many thanks to fellow blogger and barn mate Emily at May as Well Event for starting up this fun blog hop! I've loved reading everyone else's. So now you can suffer through mine.

2010
Hampton is just a baby, awkward, green 3-year-old.

April 2010



2011
Hampton's first few shows, jumps and more life experience.

Summer 2011


2012
This year was a big year of change. I get a new job that moves us to KY. Leaving the soul-sucking Indiana town I was living in changed my life for the better, no question. Hampton loves Kentucky right off the bat. Settles in great in his huge field of bluegrass. 

Summer 2012

2013
We start to dabble in Second Level early in the year. And in April, I finally get back in the recognized show ring. And it's Hampton's rated show debut.

2013: I show at the KY horse park for the first time

2014
I get my bronze medal by the skin of my teeth. I realize that you can get your bronze medal and not even be a true Third level pair. And I fire the instructor I had been lessoning with for a couple months. We move barns due to this situation. 

Courtney King Dye clinic.

2015
We continue to show Third Level and slowly improve. But struggle with the changes and uphill balance.



2016
Royale the saddlebred joins the family. I co-own him with Liz for a year or two (she eventually takes over the ride). Hampton starts cribbing later in the year. We continue to show mostly Third Level but also try 4-1 here and there. I change barns in order to have the opportunity for more lessons.



2017
This was one hell of a year. With the exception of a disastrous first show, we end up kicking ass the rest of the year in Third Level, Fourth Level and I get my Silver medal in the fall after our PSG debut. We nearly ribbon at Regionals. I WIN A SADDLE and lessons with an Olympian in a contest. .... but then right before Nationals, Hampton gets a nasty fever and I withdraw. Then my dad dies right before Christmas. It was A YEAR I tell ya.

Third level at Regionals 2017

2018
We concentrate on PSG and 4th level freestyle. We have our ups and downs, but end up pulling it together for an 8th place in the freestyle at Regionals, and 9th at Nationals.


2019
We focus on making the PSG cleaner and working toward I-1. It's been a development year, and I face doubt when I get discouraging judging comments. But we finish the year with a strong showing at I-1. We qualify for an I-1 freestyle!




whew - What a decade!

Tuesday, December 10, 2019

Calling out the hypocrites

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FFS I have talked about Safe Sport and GM a couple times here, and continue to stand by my statements.

Also I'd like to point out the UTTER HYPOCRISY the past week or so regarding how we should reject Michael Vick and ban him from being honored by the NFL and being the Pro Bowl Captain. (I know nothing about football so I'm guessing these are big deals)

Little back story, Vick spent about 21 months in a FEDERAL prison after he plead guilty to charges regarding his involvement in a dog fighting ring. He doesn't seem to be a nice fellow, and does not seem to be someone I would classify as an animal lover. He's pretty much a Grade A asshole.

"BUT! BUT! Football is how he makes his living! BUT he is a great player! He holds several records!! He redefined the role of quarterback!"

Sound familiar?

How come you people defending George Morris and saying the SAME DAMN THINGS about him are all of sudden up in arms about Vick and demanding he not get any NFL honors.

Oh that's right.

Because you are hypocrites.

For the record they BOTH should lose their careers and be banned from their CLUBS.

Excuse me why I go retrieve my eyeballs as they have rolled out of my head.

Tuesday, December 3, 2019

LS clinic: Getting real

this is a novel - sorry!

My Christmas gift to myself was a clinic spot in the LS clinic here in town. Just a couple miles down the road, actually. I have been reading her blog forever, and admire her riding and the horses she produces. Plus, a fellow blogger/friend also rides with her so I knew a little of what to expect and that I would probably like her.

I was wrong.

I LOVED IT.

Hands down one of the best clinicians I have ever ridden with and my list is pretty long.

On Saturday I introduced myself and explained the comments I have been getting from judges especially in the FEI tests. And how I really struggled this summer with those comments and am I delusional for trying to bring this wonderful horse up the levels.

 The movements are not a problem, but his engagement and uphill balance are a BIG problem and I this winter I am really getting after it.

After scolding me a bit for being too down on myself, she sent us to work.
(Then we had a discussion on why people become dressage judges and it was very enlightening. Basically, if you get nasty comments say F-em.)

That'll do, sir.
Now for more engagement.


We spent almost the entire lesson doing 10m circles down the long side. And he was NOT to lean on my hands. I have gotten in the habit (as MANY dressage riders do) of trying to help him and make it "pretty" at all times. GOD FORBID something falls apart. Well, LS told me to let him make a mistake. Let him fail. Let things fall apart. THEN correct it, put him back together, GIVE. Repeat until death. He is simply not allowed to hang on me, or push down on his shoulders. And I am not allowed to try and hold him up. Because I can't. I know I can't, but it hasn't stopped me from trying hahaha! So I have to "work harder at not working so hard."


canter work from Saturday
#buttgoals


Yes, a "simple" exercise but a good workout for Hampton. He did get tired because he had to carry himself, and find his own balance at the times where I would usually give him some help.

There was also some shoulder-in, and half pass and I would chuck my inside rein away. Does he maintain the bend? yes - great! No? Correct and give again. over and over and over.

Can you take your leg off and the horse keeps going? Yes? Great! No? He needs his cage rattled. Some horses need a loud rattle. Some horses need a train dropped on them. You need to make a point, and then sit still as if nothing had happened. Repeat.

Hampton was such a good boy and it was pouring rain and nasty. But LS has many good things to say about him and the dressage journey in general.

She called Hampton "emotionally stable" and "sure of himself." .... Well at least that's one of us. haha

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Excuse me why am I tacked up at 7:30 am?


Sunday was a much nicer morning and we picked up with the same self carriage basics from Saturday.

After warming up she asked "does he know half steps?" and I said he has the basic idea but I felt like he was "saggy" and needed to be more sharp.

She gave me an excellent exercise to create a whole bunch of energy, then you just allow piaffe to happen. Like opening a coke bottle. If you try to "make" the piaffe, you are screwed, which is what i had been doing. I had been "tap tap tapping" with my ankles which is probably fine for a more sensitive horse, but is not going to work with Hampton.

Hampton needs to learn to piaffe with my legs OFF. A hotter horse you might put your leg on, perhaps. After 10-15 minutes all I had to do was place my leg and he would piaffe. Clever boy! This is exactly the piece of the puzzle I had been missing before I have a show ring ready piaffe.



Passage was a little more difficult. I explained that no one has ever really given me instructions on what aid to apply for passage. So our transitions from trot to passage have been murky.

So, on a 20m circle we were to passage from 12 to 3. In between I am to keep my body loose, almost sloppy. Playful, sloppy elbows. Then at 12 o clock, ankles at the girth, tip slightly back and engage my core to the extreme. After a few rotations, Hampton picked up these aids and went right from trot to passage. It still needs more strength and lift (and be even more precise), but at least now I've got some clarity. And so does Hampton!



"Next year, it is not out of the realm for you to do Grand Prix." Yes those words came out of her mouth. That is not in my plans, but it was encouraging to hear that come from someone who had made MANY GP horses, and numerous FEI horses who win at the regional and national levels. She knows her shit and I take what she says seriously. I am going to cling to those words.

To end the sessions we tried to play with some ones, but they weren't really happening that day. I got a 1-1 a couple of times but never did get 3. Probably because I was now riding him differently and he was trying to figure it out. We did do a nice spontaneous line of 2s though! Something we could not do 6 months ago.



I found her training and teaching to be clear, no-bullshit, and delightfully profain. I was cracking up at times. If you like trainers who pussy foot around, pretend to be some sort of purist, and over analyze how many pounds are needed in your right seatbone to affect the inside hind leg and then if the moon is in retrograde and Snuggle Muffin might go on the bit, she is not for you. She is a rider's teacher. I can tell she has worked with many different types of horses and riders, been there and done that.

I found her to be hilarious, smart, demanding but also patient.

Other tidbits I wrote down from watching other lessons:

-- Sit down like an auction rider in the canter and drive for a couple of strides to encourage the knees to come up. Then sit chilly.

-- Young horse school in Germany is much like public school. No one is special. Sometimes you get your head slammed in the locker. Young horse school in the USA is like Montessori schools. Spoiled and lacking life skills.

-- think of pushing the bit down to his bottom teeth with your forearms

-- (for a combination where the horse would come off the bit in transitions) - think of building up to the transition. Build, build, build - ASK. ie trot to canter

-- Your strength is not in your muscles, it is in your timing

-- Think of tension between the inside hind leg and your outside rein. Like a bow. Pulling on the inside rein breaks the bow.

Overall take aways
Stop pulling on the inside rein
Stop rescuing your horse
take your legs off, put them back on
Hold your horse accountable
Don't be afraid of the ugly.

Sorry this was so long and sloppy and not well edited. It is a lot to process.

This is all a process and I think a lot of us (including myself) get caught up in what the finished product is supposed to look like. We have to remember that it doesn't start out that way (not even Valegro) and if you only get 10 steps of good work, that is 10 steps more than you had yesterday.

So keep going! :)