The last three days in Aiken we took lessons with SD dressage. She is who I really enjoyed last year and so I wanted to get in 3 lessons with her as a mini-bootcamp.
I'm going to lump these all together in one post since we worked on much of the same things each day.
Here are the big points I took away:
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| We rode out in the field for our lesson on Wednesday at JBF, and then the other days we hauled to Sarah's place. |
Stand him up on each shoulder. Flex left, stand up. Flex right, stand up.
Flex inside, half halt on outside rein brings poll up.
Inside leg to outside rein!
Stay dynamic in our work. He must always be ready to do anything, which will also keep his poll up.
Lots of mediums.
Add more stretching in trot and canter. Really forward riding, access the back. Then pick back up.
Very tricking getting the balance in a horse built like Hampton. Timing must be impeccable.
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| Sarah's gorgeous arena. |
SHORT REINS KAREN.
Give give give. Even if he falls on his face (which is did, many times. Let him make mistake)
Even lifting his poll an inch, give and go forward
Hands down for poll up
No really, Karen, shorten your reins.
Give the reins so he has nothing to lean on
Think push the haunches out in the corners. Inside hind steps under. Give inside rein
"Wellness frame" - not long and low, but not put together. Think Hunter outline
Find a way to make the horse feel good in his body
Give with the new inside rein in the changes.
Loosen my shoulders and back. Pushing hands forward helps loosen shoulders. Very common point of tension in riders.
Ride him a little off the bit sometimes. Nose out.
Legs away in piaffe
.... just incase you all are thinking Porkchop is the most perfect boy ever, I shall remind you that even Hampton has his moments. On Wednesday, I left him tied to the trailer while Liz and Royale had their lesson. At one point I glanced back and realize ... HE ISN'T TIED ANYMORE.
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| You can see him glance at me. HE KNOWS. |
And as soon as I made eye contact with him he TAKES OFF, Flagging his tail, snorting and passaging around this gorgeous farm. Riling up all the expensive dressage horses worth more than my life.
I was FUMING when I finally caught him. Thankfully, Sarah was very understanding and not at all upset. I was SO EMBARASSED. I love horses?
Anyhoo, I found the differences between Jeremy, Sarah, and other instructors really interesting.
Jeremy told me NOT to add power until the balance is good or I would just be powering him onto his forehand. Like a submarine, if your nose is pointed down and you add power, you are going to go more down.
Sarah had me add power over and over, so that his croup would lower. Interestingly enough, Hampton did indeed start stumbling, falling, getting lower in the poll for quite a while. BUT, I did trust her process and he did improve by the end of the lesson. His entire body and especially his back was really working under her guidance.
Do I think I need to find a combo of the two theories? Yes. Do I need to keep both methods in mind and find a happy medium? Yes. Are there many roads to Rome? Obviously yes.
We really got some good schooling in and having 4 lessons in a row was just the right amount. By the last one, Hampton was definitely getting tired. As was I.
Lots of information to process. Loved every second of it.
And sadly, that was the conclusion of our Aiken trip. Time to pack up and head home the next morning.
Round-up post coming up next!
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| Peanut gallery watching our lesson The bestest friends |





































